Come superare il tuo colloquio di lavoro
La preparazione è il principale predittore di successo nei colloqui. Questa guida completa copre tutto, dalla ricerca sull'azienda alla scrittura del perfetto messaggio di ringraziamento.
Sezione 1
Prima del colloquio
The interview is won or lost before you walk in the door. Candidates who do thorough research exude confidence, ask better questions, and can make genuine connections with interviewers. Plan to spend at least 2–3 hours preparing for each interview.
Research the Company
- Mission and values — Read the About page, CEO letters, and annual reports. Understand what the company stands for.
- Products and services — Know what they sell, who their customers are, and what differentiates them from competitors.
- Recent news — Search the company name on Google News. Know their recent launches, hires, funding rounds, or challenges.
- The team and your interviewer — Look up your interviewers on LinkedIn. Note their background, tenure, and any common ground.
- Glassdoor reviews — Read recent employee reviews to understand the culture and spot potential concerns.
Review the Job Description Carefully
The job description is a blueprint for the interview. Every required skill and responsibility is a potential question topic. Map each requirement to a specific experience from your background.
How to decode a job description
If the JD says: "Lead cross-functional projects to deliver product features on time"
Prepare a story about: A time you coordinated across multiple teams, managed timelines, and delivered a successful outcome — with specific results.
Prepare Your Stories in Advance
Write out 5–8 specific examples from your experience that demonstrate key competencies: leadership, problem-solving, conflict resolution, initiative, and collaboration. These become your "story bank" that you draw from during behavioral questions.
Do a mock interview the night before. Record yourself on your phone answering common questions out loud. Watching the playback is uncomfortable but extremely effective for identifying filler words, poor posture, and unclear answers.
Sezione 2
Il metodo STAR
The STAR method is the most reliable framework for answering behavioral interview questions. It forces you to structure your answers clearly and ensures you always highlight the outcome of your actions.
Situation
Set the context. Where were you working? What was the background or challenge? Keep this brief — one or two sentences maximum.
Task
Describe your specific role and responsibility in the situation. What were you expected to accomplish? What was at stake?
Action
This is the most important part. Walk through the specific steps you personally took. Use "I" not "we" — interviewers want to know what you did.
Result
What was the outcome? Quantify whenever possible. Also mention what you learned or what you would do differently.
Full STAR Example
Question: "Tell me about a time you had to meet a tight deadline."
STAR answer
S: In my previous role at a fintech startup, our engineering team was notified three weeks before our Series B close that the lead investor required a live demo of our payment API with full error handling.
T: As the lead backend engineer, I was responsible for building and stabilizing the API endpoint, which at that point was only 60% complete and had no error-handling layer.
A: I created a sprint plan, cut non-essential features from the scope, and worked with our QA engineer to build a parallel testing suite. I also held daily 15-minute standups to surface blockers immediately and kept the CTO informed with written end-of-day updates.
R: We delivered a fully working, demo-ready API two days before the deadline. The investor demo went smoothly, and the round closed successfully. That experience taught me how to triage ruthlessly under pressure and over-communicate with stakeholders.
Keep each STAR answer to 90–120 seconds when spoken aloud. Practice timing yourself. Answers that run longer than 2 minutes tend to lose the interviewer's attention, even if the content is strong.
Sezione 3
Domande comuni del colloquio
These questions appear in virtually every interview. Having a polished, practiced answer ready for each one is non-negotiable.
"Tell me about yourself."
This is an invitation to deliver your professional narrative, not your life story. Use the Present–Past–Future structure:
- Present: Your current role and what you do day to day
- Past: Your relevant experience that got you here
- Future: Why this specific role excites you
Example answer structure
"I'm currently a Senior Product Manager at [Company], where I oversee three product lines with a combined ARR of $4M. Before that, I spent four years in UX research, which gave me a deep appreciation for user-centered design. I'm looking to move into a Director-level role, and this position is particularly exciting because of your focus on AI-first product development."
"What is your greatest strength?"
Pick one genuine, role-relevant strength and back it up with a brief example. Avoid generic answers like "I'm a hard worker" or "I'm a perfectionist."
Strong answer structure
"[Strength] + [specific example with result]. This has been particularly valuable because [connect to the job you're applying for]."
"What is your greatest weakness?"
This question tests your self-awareness and honesty. Choose a real weakness that is not critical to the role, and show what you are actively doing to address it.
Strong answer structure
"Early in my career, I struggled with [real weakness]. I recognized this was holding me back, so I [specific action taken — course, mentorship, changed process]. As a result, [improvement you've seen]. I still watch for this in myself, but I've made significant progress."
Never say "I work too hard" or "I'm a perfectionist." Interviewers have heard these thousands of times and they signal a lack of genuine self-awareness.
"Why do you want to work at this company?"
This is where your pre-interview research pays off. Your answer should be specific to this company — not something that could apply anywhere. Reference their mission, a recent initiative, or the team you'd join.
Framework
"[Specific thing about the company] resonates with me because [personal connection]. I followed your [recent launch/news/initiative] and it confirmed that this is exactly the kind of work I want to be doing next. I also admire how [specific cultural or product value] aligns with the way I like to work."
"Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"
Interviewers want to assess ambition, stability, and whether your goals align with what this role can offer. Avoid being overly specific (e.g., "I want your job") or vague (e.g., "I don't know").
Balanced answer structure
"In 5 years, I'd like to have grown into [logical next level in this career path] and be someone who's contributed meaningfully to [team/product goal]. This role feels like the right foundation for that because [specific reason]."
Sezione 4
Domande comportamentali
Behavioral questions ask you to describe past situations to predict future behavior. They always start with phrases like "Tell me about a time..." or "Give me an example of...". Use the STAR method for all of these.
Prepare a STAR story for each of these common behavioral questions before your interview:
Tell me about a time you failed at something.
Shows accountability and ability to learn from mistakes
Describe a situation where you had to work with a difficult colleague.
Tests interpersonal skills and conflict resolution
Tell me about a time you had to make a decision with incomplete information.
Tests judgment and decision-making under uncertainty
Give me an example of when you had to manage multiple priorities simultaneously.
Tests time management and organizational skills
Tell me about a project you are most proud of.
Open door to showcase your best work and values
Describe a time you had to convince someone to change their mind.
Tests persuasion, communication, and stakeholder management
Tell me about a time you took initiative without being asked.
Shows proactivity and ownership mindset
Give me an example of when you received difficult feedback.
Tests coachability and self-awareness
Tell me about a time you had to adapt to a major change at work.
Tests resilience and adaptability
Describe a time you had to deliver a project with limited resources.
Tests resourcefulness and prioritization
Prepare 6–8 strong STAR stories and practice fitting them to different questions. Most behavioral questions are testing one of five competencies: leadership, collaboration, problem-solving, communication, and adaptability. Tag each story with the competencies it demonstrates.
Sezione 5
Domande da fare all'intervistatore
"Do you have any questions for us?" is one of the most important moments in any interview. Saying "No, I think you've covered everything" is a significant mistake. Thoughtful questions signal genuine interest, intelligence, and preparation. Bring 5–7 questions and expect to ask 3–4.
About the Role
- What does success look like in this role in the first 90 days?
- What are the biggest challenges someone in this position will face?
- How has this role evolved over the past year, and where do you see it going?
- What would the ideal candidate bring that the previous person in this role didn't?
About the Team and Culture
- How would you describe the team culture and how decisions get made here?
- What do you enjoy most about working here — and what do you find most challenging?
- How does the team handle disagreement or conflict?
About the Company and Future
- What are the company's biggest priorities over the next 12 months?
- How does this team's work connect to the company's broader mission?
- What does career growth look like here — both for this role and more broadly?
Avoid asking about salary, benefits, or time off in the first interview unless the interviewer brings it up. These are better addressed after you have an offer or in a final-round conversation with HR.
Sezione 6
Cosa indossare e prime impressioni
First impressions form within 7 seconds and are driven largely by appearance and body language — before you say a single word. This section covers how to make a strong, professional first impression.
Dress Code Guidelines
Business Formal
Finance, law, executive interviews
Full suit (navy, charcoal, or black), white dress shirt, conservative tie. Polished dress shoes. Minimal accessories.
Business Casual
Most corporate, tech, marketing roles
Blazer with chinos or dress trousers. Button-down shirt or blouse. Clean, minimal accessories. No jeans unless confirmed acceptable.
Smart Casual
Startups, creative industries
Clean, well-fitted clothes in neutral tones. Neat sneakers are acceptable. Avoid overly casual items like hoodies or distressed clothing.
When in doubt, dress one level above what you think the company dress code is. You can always dress down after you join, but you can never make a second first impression. If unsure, call HR or check photos from company events on LinkedIn or their website.
Body Language and Arrival
Do
- Arrive 10–15 minutes early — never late
- Greet everyone warmly, including receptionists
- Offer a firm, confident handshake
- Make natural eye contact during conversation
- Sit up straight and lean slightly forward to show engagement
- Smile genuinely and nod to show you are listening
- Turn off your phone completely before entering
Avoid
- Arriving more than 20 minutes early (can cause awkwardness)
- Crossing your arms or leaning back in your chair
- Looking at your phone or notes while someone is speaking
- Interrupting the interviewer mid-sentence
- Speaking negatively about a previous employer
- Using filler words excessively: "um," "like," "you know"
- Bringing up salary before receiving an offer
Sezione 7
Dopo il colloquio
What you do in the 24 hours after an interview can meaningfully affect the outcome. Most candidates skip the follow-up — which is exactly why doing it well makes you stand out.
Send a Thank-You Email Within 24 Hours
A thank-you email is not just courtesy — it is a second opportunity to sell yourself. Keep it brief: 3–4 short paragraphs. Send a separate, personalized email to each interviewer if you spoke with multiple people.
Thank-you email template
Subject: Thank you — [Role Name] Interview
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Hi [Interviewer Name],
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Thank you for taking the time to speak with me today about the [Role Name] position. I really enjoyed our conversation about [specific topic you discussed] — it gave me a much clearer picture of [something meaningful you learned].
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After our discussion, I am even more excited about this opportunity. [One specific reason why, tied to something they said.] I believe my experience in [relevant area] would allow me to contribute quickly to [specific goal or challenge they mentioned].
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Please do not hesitate to reach out if you need any additional information. I look forward to hearing about the next steps.
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Best regards,
[Your Name]
Debrief and Document
Immediately after the interview, while it is fresh, write down:
- Every question you were asked (for future reference)
- Answers you felt went well vs. ones you would improve
- Key facts about the company, team, and role you want to remember
- Your gut feeling about the culture and whether it is the right fit
Following Up After No Response
If you have not heard back within the timeframe they gave you, it is completely appropriate to send a brief, professional follow-up email. Keep it one short paragraph — express continued interest and ask if there are any updates.
If you still do not hear back after a second follow-up, move on and continue applying elsewhere. The best way to negotiate from a position of strength is to have multiple opportunities in play simultaneously.
Connect with each interviewer on LinkedIn after your interview. Write a brief, personalized connection note referencing something specific from your conversation. Even if this role doesn't work out, you are building a valuable professional relationship.